7 Key Things to Know Before You Date a Bengali!

Every individual has his or her own unique perspective on how to live life, but if people belong to the same culture and community, we can assume some of their traits and what that community values.

Bengalis are known for their sweet tooth and intellect, they love food and exploring its varieties. They are also misunderstood by many, which causes conflicts and results in bad books. Things2do has come up for you to break some stereotypes and uncover the real deal. Here’s a quick guide for you to know before dating a Bengali. 

1Family comes first

Families are super important to Bengalis, just like they are to other communities. When you are looking to impress or date a Bengali, it is advisable to talk to them about their family members and people within their family who are close to them. It is important that you have an open heart and remember that they have a large family. Be prepared to meet a lot of new people pretty quickly!

2Food is love

You are in for a real treat when it comes to Bengali cuisine. Get ready for delicious, traditional meals cooked at home, endless discussions about the best restaurants, and plenty of food suggestions. Don’t worry about diets; Bengalis are amazing cooks, and you’ll always have yummy options to choose from!

3Festival Fever

Festivals are a big deal! They have ‘Baro maashe tero paarbon’ which means there are more festivals than seasons, as a result of which you will always stay occupied and entertained by some festivals or the other, and getting bored is not an option. The Bengalis always look stunning in traditional attire, be it men wearing Kurta pajamas or women wearing sarees. Attending Durga Puja and getting to see the beautiful pandals during the Pujo will always be an added advantage.

4Sweet Tooth

There is no doubt that Bengalis have a legendary sweet tooth, along with their sweet language. Prepare yourself for endless offerings of rasgullas, sandesh, and other yummy sweet dishes.

5Emotional Connection

It is well known that Bengalis are extremely expressive and emotional, making them the kind of people who are likely to give you lots of love, lots of laughter, and sometimes tears too. They are also rather fun-loving and extroverted people, making them the kind of people who are always listening to you.

6Knowledge and power of the mother tongue

They have a rich culture, be it education, music, dance, or anything else, and they are dreamers, as a result of which you will always get supported and motivated by them no matter what. It is well known that Bengalis are well educated, engage in debates on politics and society, and give their point of view.

The Bengali language and culture are deeply rooted. While many Bengalis speak English fluently, they might switch to Bengali for certain conversations, especially with family.

7Easily get impressed

Don’t be concerned if you can’t afford to give them some expensive or fancy gifts; just make a self-made album filled with Rabindra Sangeet, take them out for chai, or take them for a lunch or dinner treat, and don’t forget to add dessert at the end.

Breaking Stereotypes

As with any other community, Bengalis are also infamous for some of their stereotypes, like those held by other communities as well:

1Not all Bengalis are fish lovers

There are many Bengalis who enjoy fish, but it’s not a universal truth because there are many Bengalis who are not fond of fish or are vegetarians. They have diverse taste preferences as well.

2Not all Bengalis are shy

An individual’s personality can be characterized as shy or extroverted, but it cannot be matched with a community’s personality. Bengalis can initially appear reserved, but they warm up quickly and have a wonderful sense of humor that makes them stand out. They are also warm-hearted people who love to laugh and have a good time.

3Not all Bengalis are singers, musicians, or dancers

People make the assumption that Bengalis love to sing, but that’s not always true! While music is super important in Bengali culture, not everyone is good at it. Just like in any place, you’ll find some amazing singers and some who prefer to listen. So, don’t be surprised if your Bengali date isn’t the next big singing star. They might love to listen to music.

Remember:

These are just general observations and not stereotypes. Every individual is unique. The best way to understand someone is to spend time with them and learn about their individual personality and preferences.

So these were some of the points that Things2do came up with. We hope this will help you make your connection stronger and handle situations more maturely. Have fun exploring the beautiful world of Bengali culture and relationships! For more such interesting topics: Check out https://things2.do/blogs/?s=kolkata  

by Sagar Raj Singh

Content Writer at Things2do